【思考题】女性难解之谜

远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
<p><br ></p><span style="mso-list: Ignore;" ><p>&nbsp;</p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 20.25pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; text-indent: -18pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-list: l7 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" ><span style="mso-list: Ignore;" >1.<span style="font: 7pt/normal &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;" >&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >张扬个性,是对女权的误解还是审美观的扭曲?</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; text-indent: 21pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >课程中讲到,上海地铁某女穿透视装,对别人的善意提醒,提出了:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >“</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >我可以骚,但你不能扰</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >”</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >,乍一听,感到好任性。对于品行好的人,穿成啥样或许也没影响,但对于心术不正、而且不要命的人来说,这就不好说了。社会文明还没发展到那个程度</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >---</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >人人为君子,而且永远也不会发展到那个程度。</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; text-indent: 21pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >女性的衣着、鞋子等,款式花样繁多,衣服要清凉、要塑身,鞋子跟要细、要高,近乎踮着脚走路,这种装扮,对女性的举止有很大的束缚,而且对身体健康非常不利,但很多女性乐意。女性衣着暴露,是自我欣赏还是为了满足大众的欣赏?若自我欣赏,在家穿就可以了,若是为了博得眼球,满足大众欣赏,这种审美观,是女性自己的审美标准还是男性构建的?在旧社会,女性缠足,限制了女性的自由与思想,今天,获得自由的女性,又纷纷跳入</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >“</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >美</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >”</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >的陷阱。</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; text-indent: 21pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-para-margin-left: 2.0gd;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >女性爱美,无可厚非,让人不解的是,有的女性不惜任何代价去追求那种外在的美。本来长的很美了,却要花重金对自己的身体割割补补,脸上涂了一层又一层,把美都留给了别人,等卸下妆,揽镜自照的时候,把惊悚和恐慌留给了自己,女性不是败给了岁月,是输给了自己的虚荣和扭曲的审美观。</span></p><p></p><p align="left" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p><br ></p><p></p><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" ><p style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><br ></p></span></span><p></p><p></p>
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  • 远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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    <p>&nbsp;2、<span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >被传统与社会建构的女性</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >在过去,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" > </span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >女性受封建礼教的迫害,无力反抗,只得默默忍受。在今天,女性受社会与文化的熏染,心甘情愿的变得乖巧可人,这是情商高的体现还是自我的丢失?看到很多书籍与课程的标题,明显的是教女性如何说话做事,而且规矩很多,而对于男性,这方面的要求很少,这是否带有性别偏见呢?社会文明要健康发展,男性,更应该接受教育。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >3、工作无高低贵贱之分?能赚钱就有尊严?</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >很多女性,从事与男性一样的工作,建筑工地、个体商贩,她们吃苦耐劳,也有可观的经济来源,但她们在家庭中的地位并不高。她们吃穿用度异常俭朴,对自己苛刻的让人很难理解,劳动所得不是给了整个家庭就是被儿女搜刮殆尽,不知她们是不舍得消费还是不懂得享受生活?也正是因为她们不懂得爱自己,所以也没有得到家庭其他成员的爱,女性,首先要学会爱自己,若只把自己当成赚钱的机器,别人就会把自己当奴隶。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p></p>
    远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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    <p>&nbsp;4、<span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >金钱未必能开道</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >课程中讲到,国家鼓励女性自主创业,对无业女性提供无息贷款,但有很多女性,贷款并不是为了自己创业,而是协助老公创业或者作为它用。她们,没有自己的思想,视野不开阔,所以,有钱并不能改变她们目前的窘状,有思路,才有出路,有能力,才能改变境遇。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >5、女权</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >≠</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >霸权</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >有的女性,有工作,有固定的经济来源,然后在家里就威风八面的,对老公呼来喝去,连公婆也不放在眼里,一副为我独尊的样子。有的女性,没有工作,但也尖酸刻薄,竟也把老公训的服服贴贴,老公则是眼睁睁的看着老婆对自己的妈大呼小叫的,只能忍耐,这样的男性,让人鄙视,这样的女性,也让人厌恶。婚姻中任何一方的霸权,都会对孩子影响深远,看似是强者得势,但最终伤害的是自己。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" ><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;" >6、&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >最近又出了美女机器人,真实情况并不太了解,但好像成了热点,也是一种趋势,而这个消费群体多数是男性,这不带有严重的性别歧视与不平等吗?</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p></p>
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  • 远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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    <p>&nbsp;7、<span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >教育可以让女性觉醒?</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >有很多受过高等教育的女性,她们有知识、有文化,但却明码标价求包养,为什么上了那么多年学,接受了那么多年的正面教育,到最后却堕落了。还有很多处于蒙昧状态的女孩,任性的为所欲为,结果毁了自己的人生。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >8、养儿防老?</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >对这个问题,我一直比较怀疑。在现实中,倒是看见更多的啃老现象,更多的是女儿养老。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >很多女性,在原生家庭,不被当作家庭成员看,总以为女孩迟早要嫁人,所以在成长过程中,享受的待遇与男孩不同,婚后虽然有法定继承父母遗产的权利,但多半是自动放弃。而且,在父母生病,需要照顾和钱的时候,多半是女儿的事,话语权就免了。一家人,若感情很好,钱怎么花也无所谓,但若感情不好,就会感到这是极大的不公平,那就是憋屈。这种现象,非常的普遍,那些束缚人的老规矩,该破的还是要破的。</span></p><p></p>
    远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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  • 远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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    <p>&nbsp;</p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; line-height: 15.6pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >9、被生育权困扰的女性</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >国家放开政策,很多家庭开始二宝计划,但更多的人是观望,或者根本就没打算。符合条件的女性遇到亲朋好友就有话题了,见面就问二宝的事,甚至成了招呼语,婆婆更是比谁都急,发动亲戚朋友,想着法的做工作,若一天被问上几次,有好心情才怪。女性有选择是否生育的自由,但却无法排除外界对此问题的关注度,以及由此带来的困扰。</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;" ><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: &quot;Helvetica&quot;,sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;" >&nbsp;</span></p><p align="left" style="text-align: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 15.6pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-top: 0cm; margin-bottom: 0pt; vertical-align: baseline; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; mso-para-margin-left: 2.0gd;" ><span style="color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;" >&nbsp; 女性,这个在生理上处于相对弱势的群体,肩负着繁衍后代的重任、还要被贴上被观赏者的标签、既要工作又要顾家。新时代的女性,虽然家庭与社会地位是有了很大的提高,但这种提高具有局限性,也让女性更累。还是颜宁教授看的透彻,活的洒脱,为了自己热爱的事业,挣脱一切束缚,自由自在的享受人生。女性,要活出自己,也许就要有所舍弃。</span></p><p></p>
    远方不远010 发表于2019年06月10日
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